Infinite Sex
Revive profound intimacy and pleasure
Her sex drive is not gone, it’s just in hiding
And with the right attention, it can come roaring back
If you want more sex than your partner it doesn’t mean she’s not into you or that it will be like this forever.
It means, as a couple, it’s time to upgrade your sex life so it satisfies both of you equally. That’s what I help couples achieve.
▶ MALE VS FEMALE PLEASURE
Why do women grow disinterested in typical sex?
A male friend and I talked about the first time someone touched our genitals. Our stories started the same way: two awkward teenagers knocking teeth while kissing, fumbling with zippers, and hoping for the best. “But did it feel good?” I asked him.
“Are you kidding?! Of course, it felt good,” he said, with such enthusiasm that I realized our first times receiving sexual pleasure had been wildly different.
The first time someone touched me, I felt excited but also confused. I probably moaned a little so it seemed like we were both doing it right. I got distracted and worried I smelled bad. I certainly didn’t reach a climax or feel immense pleasure. I left tentatively thinking, “I guess I’d try that again…”
After a typical sexual encounter, the sad joke is we’re looking at two very different people. He’s blissed out (or passed out) and she’s either frustrated or relieved it’s over.
She’s frustrated because typical sex doesn’t provide the experience she craves, which is the experience of letting go. Instead of being fun and stress-relieving, typical sex – especially in the long term – feels more like work than a tropical vacation. This is why she’s relieved when it’s over: the task is done and she can finally relax.
This is a major problem for both of you.
▶ IT’S NOBODY’S FAULT WHEN SEX STOPS WORKING
When we’re sexually frustrated, turned off, or resentful, we look for someone to blame. It’s his fault because he’s touching her wrong. Or it’s her fault because she only says no and doesn’t even try. No—it’s the kids’ fault! Who can have a sex life after kids?!
Problems in sex are always shared—when sex isn’t working for one person, it isn’t working for anyone.
The truth is, the fault lies not with the people having the sex, but instead with the type of sex those people are having.
Simply put sexual liberation and ever-increasing fulfillment for women don’t happen in typical sex. And if it’s not happening for her, it’s not happening for you, either.
▶ THE BIG OBVIOUS SECRET IS…
Sexual problems seem like a complicated puzzle when we’re in the middle of them.
The truth is so very simple it can be easy to miss: typical sex doesn’t provide sexual fulfillment in long-term relationships, especially for women. And when something isn’t fulfilling… people stop wanting to do it.
That’s it.
That’s the big obvious secret.
It’s normal for a woman to lose interest in something she’s been doing for years that doesn’t feel all that great for her.
When she’s already stressed with work and the kids, it’s healthy for her to limit activities that drain her energy.
We humans are pleasure seekers who hunt down experiences that feel good and go to disastrous lengths to avoid ones that don’t. When sex is working for a woman, she will hunt you down for it. She will want as much if not more of it than you do.
I’ve lived this transformation myself and supported it in couple after couple, client after client.
A woman’s lack of interest in sex says nothing about either of your sexual prowesses, skills, potentials, or compatibilities. It’s a symptom—it’s not the problem itself.
It means you’re both ready for something way, way better than the passionless status quo.
My method is an invitation to a passion revival. All that’s required is to walk away from the ruts you’ve fallen into and make your sex Infinite.
Get ready to make out like teenagers again.
About Me
I’m a Stanford-educated writer and certified sex and relationship coach. Ten years ago, I stumbled down the path of reclaiming my sexual fulfillment after my marriage fell apart. I discovered simple, profound methods for radical sexual fulfillment. Now I teach others how to do it. I’ve helped thousands of women and couples revive their desire and make out like teenagers again.
“It was hard to admit that something was amiss in sex, even though I knew it wasn’t what it could be. Changing our dynamic took a third party—and Bez is great. I trust her completely.”
“Bez is fearless. Nothing you say will shock her. During our sessions, I always felt respected. If you want something and are scared to name it—Bez is the coach for you. She will guide you to gratification.”
“We made more progress in the last four weeks than we have in the last 20 years. Thank you for making this accessible to couples like us.”
“I learned there was nothing wrong with my body or my partner. After working with her, our sex life has gotten 100 times better!“
