Before working with me, couples often report:
- They’re having sex less and less frequently
- One of them predictably wants more sex than the other
- They dread having that same fight about sex (again…)
- They feel restless, exhausted, or lonely
- Women see sex as another item on their to-do list. After sex they often think, “There must be more to it than this…”
- Men say her complaining is wearing them down, especially when their efforts to help her aren’t working
After, they say things like:
- “I can’t believe how much I enjoy kissing and cuddling again.” – Nicki
- “I have never heard women’s needs explained this way. I finally get it!” – Jack
- “Bez helped my desire surface—it’s a relief to find my desire was still there.” – Sarah
- “I feel closer to my girlfriend every day. The sex keeps getting better, and she’s happy again.” – Steve
All that’s required is:
- A mutual desire for positive change
- Shared willingness to try something new and employ your beginner’s mind
- An hour a week for coaching plus 20 minutes a few days between sessions
- Trust and goodwill between you
If you are struggling with contempt, infidelity, or trauma in your relationship, please reach out so I can refer you to a therapist.
Begin the Conversation
Set up an intro phone call with me to say hello and see if we’re a good fit.
Book a 90-Minute Initial Session
We dive right into your unique struggles and desires, and emerge with a plan
Explore Specific Activities on Your Own Time
I provide low-pressure, high-reward activities to do on your own time between sessions
Keep Coming Back
Couples report that after one to two months of coaching with me, their sex lives have dramatically improved
About Me
I’m a Stanford-educated writer and certified sex and relationship coach. Ten years ago, I stumbled down the path of reclaiming my sexual fulfillment after my marriage fell apart. I discovered simple, profound methods for radical sexual fulfillment. Now I teach others how to do it. I’ve helped thousands of women and couples revive their desire and make out like teenagers again.
Testimonials
“It was hard to admit that something was amiss in sex, even though I knew it wasn’t what it could be. Changing our dynamic took a third party—and Bez is great. I trust her completely.”
“Bez is fearless. Nothing you say will shock her. During our sessions, I always felt respected. If you want something and are scared to name it—Bez is the coach for you. She will guide you to gratification.”
“We made more progress in the last four weeks than we have in the last 20 years. Thank you for making this accessible to couples like us.”
“I learned there was nothing wrong with my body or my partner. After working with her, our sex life has gotten 100 times better!“
